Adjustment for Life

Building a family is not just a thing of which after you have taken the vow of marriage you can go back from your usual single life. Instead, you get to start a new life with someone who will share with it. I believe those who got married were very much prepared to be in the journey that they’re going to take; otherwise, they end up unhappy.

Adjustment is one particular aspect of marriage that has to be understood by some, who, until now doesn’t understand what they’re going through. It doesn’t only mean you get to adjust for few months after your wedding but it is in your entire marriage life that you’re going to have that adjustment. You may wonder that after a few months of your union you begin to fight. It is of course you are obviously two different individuals with different personalities, living in one house, trying to compromise each other.

It’s easier said than done because if I were to put myself into the shoes of married women, I would have been claiming the same, whom have said had been adjusting the whole life of their marriage but still end up fighting each other. Well, there may have other factors aside from the differences of personalities, which would make the situation even worst and may lead to part their ways.

Change plays an important role in adjusting with something or someone. It is the mind attitude that you are going to change for you to get on with the adjustment without pressuring yourself. If you are going to change the way you interpret and look at things then it may turn out differently, thus, making you feel good and act more productively and readily to adjust. It’s like dancing into the tune of whatever kind of music is playing on that particular time of day. There’s no such thing as perfect family, husband or wife. In fact, just think what it would be like if you were perfect. There’d be nothing to learn, no way to improve, and life would be completely void of challenge and the satisfaction that comes from mastering something that takes effort. It would be like going to kindergarten for the rest of your life. You would know all the answers and win every game. Every project would be a guaranteed success because you would do everything correctly. People’s conversations would offer you nothing because you would already know it all. And most important, nobody could love or relate to you. It would be impossible to feel any love for someone who was flawless and knew it all. Doesn’t that sound lonely, boring and miserable? Well, you can either try to be perfect and end up miserable, or you can aim to be human and imperfect and feel enhanced.

The photo above is just a representation of my message "adjustment for life." Though I know so much of the couple but no particular thoughts of my message have been proven something that the couple can relate with, if so, then they must tighten up their seat belt of marriage!...Aren't they cute?. That's Matt their son.